National Shura 1433 and Muslim Chaplain and Imam Training

Qur'an Stand

Islamic Seminary Foundation (ISF)

in cooperation with

The Association of Muslim Chaplains (AMC)

Invites you to a

National Shura 1433 and In-service training for Chaplains and Imams

Date: Sat March 10, 2012 Time: 8am-6pm

Venue: Yale University

Linsly-Chittenden Hall (LC) 

63 High Street, New Haven, CT 06511-8963

Fees – $99 (Student w/ID-$50)/Early Bird -$60 (Student w/ID-$30) (Includes continental breakfast, lunch and breaks)

Fiduciary agent: Masjid Al-Islam Inc., New Haven CT

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Topics include:

·         Clinical Assessment and Referral

·         Compassion Fatigue  and Self-Care in Interfaith Settings

·         Post Traumatic Stress Disorder: Signs &

·         Developing Chaplaincy  and Imam Best Practices Through Research

·         Domestic Violence: Signs & Strategies

·         Effective Interfaith Written and Oral Presentations

·         The Imam in the Modern American Context

·         The Future of Muslim Chaplaincy in the US

Confirmed speakers include :  Dr Wahiba Abu-Ras, Dr. Ihsan Bagby, Dr Hamada Hamid MD, Dr. Ingrid Mattson, Chaplain Lt. Col. Abdul Rasheed Muhammad

In addition, there will be a meeting of the new Association of Muslim Chaplains (AMC); Chaplaincy Group Meetings for the areas of Education, Community (including Imams), Corrections, Health Care, and Military and; progress reports from the Islamic Seminary Foundation (ISF) and the Muslim Endorsement Council of CT (MECC)

Based on a process developed in consultation with: Council on American Islamic Relations (CAIR), Graduate School of Islamic and Social Sciences (GSISS), International Institute of Islamic Thought (IIIT), International League of Muslim Women – New England Chapter, Islamic Council of New England (ICNE), Islamic Center of New London (ICNL), Islamic Circle of North America (ICNA), Islamic Relief-USA, Islamic Social Services Association-USA (ISSA-USA), Islamic Society of North America (ISNA), Manhattanville College Department of World Religions, Masjid Al-Islam (MAI), Muslim American Society (MAS)-Freedom, Muslim Alliance in North America (MANA), Muslim Endorsement Council of CT (MECC), New England Council of Masajid, New England Muslim Sisters Association (NEMSA)

“And God Saw That It Was Good”

I am taking a course called, “Genesis With the Rabbis.”

It is a course that examines the book of Genesis, often called the Book of Creation, with a Jewish lens.  Each participant (Christian, Jewish, and me, the Muslim!) is to bring a Bible or Torah of his/her choice to the class.  Additionally, we were given a list of rabbincal commentaries and asked to select one.

I chose “Covenant & Conversation, Genesis: The Book of Beginnings,” written by Rabbi Jonathan Sacks (Maggid Books & The Orthodox Union, 2009).

In one essay called “Three Stages of Creation,” Rabbi Sacks maintains that the stages of creation are (1) And God said, let there be … (2) And there was …, and (3) And God saw that it was good.”

It is what Rabbi Sacks wrote about the third stage, “And God saw that it was good,” that absolutely astounded me and made me cry.  I think that all chaplains who work in corrections can relate to Rabbi Sacks’ observation and wanted to share it with you:

“In the course of my work, I have visited prisons and centres for young offenders.  Many of the people I met there were potentially good.  They, like you and me, had dreams, hopes, ambitions, aspirations.  They did not want to become criminals.  Their tragedy was that often they came from dysfunctional families in difficult conditions.  No one took the time to care for them, support them, teach them how to negotiate the world, how to achieve what they wanted through hard work and persuasion rather than violence and lawbreaking.  They lacked a basic self-respect, a sense of their own worth.  No one ever told them that they were good. 

To see that someone is good and to say so is a creative act – one of the great creative acts.  There may be some few individuals who are inescapably evil, but they ae few.  Within almost all of us is something positive and unique, but which is all too easily injured, and which only grows when exposed to the sunlight of someone else’s recognition and praise.  To see the good in others and let them see themselves in the mirror of our regard is to help someone grow to become the best they can be.  “Greater,” says the Talmud, “is one who causes others to do good than one who does good himself.” (Bava Batra, 9a)  To help others become what they can be is to give birth to creativity in someone else’s soul.  This is done not by criticism or negativity but by searching out the good in others, and helping them see it, recognize it, own it, and live it. 

‘And God saw that it was good’ – this too is part of the work of creation, the subtlest and most beautiful of all.  When we recognise the goodness in someone, we do more than create it, we help it to become creative.  This is what God does for us, and what He calls us to do for others.”

Prison chaplains need to constantly examine what it is that we are creating in our facilities.

Do we take pride in causing inmates to do good, or do we pride ourselves in the “good” we think we ourselves do?  Preparing inspiring sermons and khutbahs is important.  So is leading classes and other religious activities.  But finding and nurturing the good in inmates is an important part of helping them  to create self-respect and self-worth.

It’s not always easy.  People who lack self-respect and self-worth sometimes sabotage their growth.  They sometimes push us away.  They dare us to love them.

That’s where we chaplains have to get creative.  It’s worth it.

And they’re worth it.

Celebrating in “Locked Places” …

"Dreidel, Dreidel, I Made it Out of Clay"

(Image Credit: S. E. Jihad Levine, Copyright 2011-2012, All Rights Reserved)

Wherever you are today, whatever you are doing … as you celebrate, please remember to pray for those who are observing their traditions in “locked” places.

“Merry Christmas, Shani!”’ Paul flashed a wide smile at me and bobbed his head up and down, making his dirty blonde dreadlocks bounce enthusiastically.

“I don’t celebrate that holiday,” I said tightly, nervously fingering the top button of my buttoned-up oxford shirt .

There were two things wrong with this little scenario, far as I was concerned. One, he mentioned that holiday that was part of a foreign religion. Two, he was a guy, I was a girl and we shouldn’t have been talking. About anything. Period.  READ MORE …

From the President’s Desk


Hello to each of you from the President’s desk!

Here we are approaching another Christmas for those of you who celebrate the birth of Christ.  And we’re almost at the end of the year 2011.

The Jewish community is celebrating Chanukah on December 20 through 28 (for comprehensive information about Chanukah, visit Aleph Institute’s web site).

Can you believe it?  I can’t, but, whether we believe it or not, it’s here!

I would like to take a moment, in all the hustle and bustle of the season and life in general, to encourage you in the area of peace.

The definition of peace is “a state of quiet or tranquility.”  I like the Hebrew word for peace, “shalom,” which expresses the idea of wholeness.  In Arabic, the word for peace is “salam.”

As we chaplains know, it can be very chaotic in prison at times.  As people of faith, I believe if anyone should have and operate in peace, it should be us.

Can we be at peace in the midst of chaos?  I believe we can.

Psalm 34:14 says:

“Depart from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.”

Our peace is evidently not something that just happens, and it is definitely not based on our circumstances.  If we are going to have peace and keep our peace we must do what is right.

What is right?  Wrong is not always what we are doing, but what we are saying. Sometimes we need to “hold our peace” and not say anything that adds to the chaos.

Don’t allow the outward circumstances to steal your peace.

We can’t give something we don’t have.  The people we are ministering to everyday are looking to us for guidance and direction.  Let’s be people of our faith and not just talk about peace, but actually live it, so we can give it.

My prayer for each of you chaplains in the new year is peace, blessings, and protection.  That you would continue in the work, that you have been called to do, with joy and peace in your hearts.  Amen.

Merry Christmas and Happy Chanukah!

Chaplain Brenda Libreatori
PPCA President

What Went Wrong?

Whew!  I’ve been so busy registering you all for our upcoming conference that I haven’t had the chance to come here and update you.  Plus, most of us are finishing up the Islaamic month of Ramadhan in our facilities and are preparing for Eid and the Jewish High Holidays … it’s all so dizzying!

But in the process of registering everyone, I was contacted by a wonderful woman named Debbie Walsh.

Debbie is the Director of Prison Ministry for Child Evangelism Fellowship (CEF), an organization that has been reaching out to children and people who love them since 1937.

CEF has a program for inmates and their children called What Went Wrong?

What Went Wrong is a booklet that offers inmates an opportunity to learn about Christ and enroll themselves and their children in an effective Bible correspondence program called the Truth Chasers Club (formerly the CEF Mailbox Club™).

The Truth Chasers Club offers age appropriate lessons for all, children
through adults.  There is no charge for the lessons or books.

Each adult who enrolls will receive a series of Bible lessons.  When he
completes a series he will receive a certificate and a reward.

CEF will send booklets and informational DVDs free to chaplains to review and distribute to their inmate population.

BUT!  Debbie is planning on attending our conference!  We are arranging a time for her to give a presentation of her program, and she will be available for you to speak with personally to obtain more information!

If you cannot attend the conference and are interested in learning more, browse CEF’s website or contact Debbie at Debbie.Walsh@cefonline.com.

See you at the conference!

John E. Wetzel to Speak at PPCA Conference

John E. Wetzel, Secretary, PA Department of Corrections

John E. Wetzel, Secretary, Pennsylvania Department of Corrections will speak to prison chaplains at the 2011 PPCA Annual Conference, to be held September 13-15, 2011, at the Laurelville Mennonite Church Center in Mt. Pleasant, PA.

John E. Wetzel was appointed by Gov. Tom Corbett as secretary of the Department of Corrections in December 2010.

Secretary Wetzel has served as a correctional officer (Lebanon County Correctional Facility), a treatment counselor, supervisor of treatment services, and training academy director (Berks County Prison).

In 2002, Wetzel was named warden of the Franklin County Jail.  He was also appointed as the corrections expert to the Pennsylvania Board of Pardons in June 2007, a position he continues to hold.

Since 2006, Wetzel has been a corrections consultant in the areas of operational and staffing analysis and vulnerability assessments.

Secretary Wetzel is currently the immediate past president of the PA County Corrections Association (formerly PA County Prison Wardens Association).

The PPCA appreciates Secretary Wetzel’s support of Pennsylvania prison chaplaincy.  He is scheduled to speak at the conference on Wednesday evening, after dinner.

 

2011 PPCA Annual Conference!

Greetings of Peace!

The Pennsylvania Prison Chaplains Association 2011 Annual Conference is planned for Tuesday – Thursday, September 13-15, 2011, at the Laurelville Mennonite Church Center, in Mt. Pleasant, PA.

Rev. Uli Klemm will email the conference brochure and registration form to all PA Department of Corrections (DOC) FCPDs and chaplains.  Hopefully, new DOC chaplains will join us at the conference.

I (Sr. Safiyyah) will email all non-DOC PPCA member chaplains and volunteers.  Please, if you know of a prison chaplain or volunteer at your facility or through your ministry, by all means, give them a copy of the brochure and registration form.  We’d love to see them come and meet new colleagues!

If you are a prison chaplain or volunteer for the Federal system or other ministry/prison, please print out the forms from this website and following the directions for submission.

All are welcome!

Here are the forms:

PPCA 2011 Conference Brochure

PPCA 2011 Conference Registration Form

Please note that no brochures or registration forms will be snail-mailed unless I know you do not have computer access at work or at your home (yes, there are still a few, lol).

This year, the PPCA offers you an option of paying by credit card.  If you want to pay by credit card (Visa, MasterCard, American Express, or Discover cards only), fill out the registration form and return it.  We will swipe your credit card at the conference.

The theme of this year’s conference is “Sex Offenders: Treatment and the Chaplain’s Role in Transformation and Accountability.”  Our main speaker will be David L. Delmonico, PhD.

Dr. Delmonico is an Associate Professor at Duquesne University in Pittsburgh, PA.  He conducts research, consultation, and training on topics such as cybersex, cyberoffense, and cybersafety.  He also lectures on topics such as general Internet psychology and sexually addictive and compulsive behaviors.  Dr. Delmonico is co-author of In the Shadows of the Net, and Cybersex Un-hooked.  He has published numerous scholarly articles on a variety of addiction and sexuality topics.  Dr. Delmonico is also the Director of the Online Behavior Research and Education Center (OBREC) at Duquesne University and Editor-in-Chief of the Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity journal.

Time will be set aside at the conference for respective faith groups for worship and spiritual meditation.

Presentations and Workshops include:

1.  Treatment Challenges of Sexual Offenders in Prison and the Chaplain’s Role
- Denise Bunner, Psychological Services Specialist, PA DOC, SCI Albion

2.  Circles of Support and Accountability (COSA) – Religious Communities Helping Sexual Offenders Transition to the Community
- Keith Regehr, LAVORP

3.  Jews, Rastas, and Native Americans in Prison: Why the Fuss?
- Three separate workshops

4.  Re-Entry Programs That Work
- Workshop

5.  Transference: Chaplains Be Aware
- Workshop

Conference participants will receive a certificate for up to 12 hours of in-service training, along with a complementary PPCA gift.

Networking Tables – Resource and vendor tables will be available.

NOTE:  Please have your registration in by August 23, 2011.  If it’s going to be late, call Sr. Safiyyah Jihad Levine at (570) 286-1677 about the availability of rooms.

You may also email the PPCA at PennsylvaniaPrisonChaplains@gmail.com.

What Is “Chapel Talk,” And What Can It Do For My Jail?

What Is “Chapel Talk,” And What Can It Do For My Jail?
by James L. Cavenaugh
Volunteer Chaplain
Dauphin County Prison

Imagine a group of inmates of various faiths and beliefs sitting in a circle, discussing a typical life issue: power, self-respect, forgiveness, patience, or the like.

They begin by taking turns reading the ground rules (see Figure 1 below) and then turn to the topic or theme for the day.  Because the group is explicitly for people of all faiths or no faith, reminders are needed sometimes about respecting the statements of others.  And because inmates often lack a chance to be heard and may want to speak at length, reminding the group that all need to be heard usually helps the one talking to wind up his statement.  When an inmate reaches into his/her private life for an experience he/she hasn’t spoken of, and the group listens respectfully and with care, the result is what we come together to achieve: group pastoral counseling.

In 1988, Chaplain Larry Coleman (now retired after 20 years as a staff chaplain at Dauphin County Prison) began a group pastoral counseling program based on his prior experience at the Fulton County jail.

By inviting all inmates, regardless of their religious persuasion, he was able to reach many more individuals than typically sign up for worship services or Bible studies.  His program was called “Chapel Talk” from the outset, and the groups drew attendance that was consistent – with rich discussion at every session. ¹

Most inmates at Dauphin County Prison identify as Christian, but there are also many Muslims, a few Jewish or Buddhist inmates, and a good number of inmates who do not identify with a faith tradition.  So a program that clearly reaches out to the whole inmate population will include a significant number whose needs are otherwise not being addressed.

One lively group included a Muslim sitting across from a Mormon who was beside a Roman Catholic, who was across from an unchurched inmate!  He was sitting beside a Baptist inmate who seemed to want to become a street preacher.  The discussion was rich, and with a few reminders now and then, it was quite productive.

It is important to be flexible when the discussion seems to get off topic, since the new direction may be of value to those in the group.  Often, some comment will suggest a topic for a future Chapel Talk, but just as preachers find sermon ideas everywhere – and often unexpectedly – I find Chapel Talk ideas throughout my day, inside or outside of the prison.

When I began doing Chapel Talks, I would prepare a handout with quotations from the Christian Bible, followed by quotes from various sacred or inspirational writings such as the examples in Figure 2 below.

Learning to find meaningful quotes on the Internet took a while, and when I discovered searchable translations of the Holy Qur’an online, I began adding quotes that Muslims inmates might appreciate.

More recently, I have used a handout which illustrates the topic with pictures found on the Internet (See ‘Fair Use’ disclaimer at the bottom of this article) as a way to make Chapel Talk accessible to those whose reading skills are not good, and because pictures relate to the creative side of the brain.

Figure 3 is an example of one of the most successful handouts – it turned out that the guys in the group knew what it meant to “wear a jail face.”

An important concern or challenge in setting up Chapel Talk groups is the ability or willingness of those leading the groups to be comfortable with faiths other than their own and to avoid evangelizing.

This issue needs to be addressed up front because while the senior chaplain at a prison is responsible for all inmates, the other chaplains are typically responsible primarily for those of their own faith.  Protestant chaplains minister to Protestants, Catholic chaplains minister to Catholics, etc.

Since Chapel Talk reaches out to all inmates, including those inmates who would otherwise “slip through the cracks,” some training or orientation may be needed to help all the chaplains at an institution become comfortable with this form of pastoral counseling. (Editor note: this would not be the case in a correctional  facility – such as the PA Department of Corrections, where, per policy, every staff chaplain is responsible for ministering to all inmates, regardless of faith group, unless the chapel activity/worship service is faith-specific.) 

With so many prisons depending on volunteer chaplains, accepting that not all chaplains will be able to be equally welcoming to all faiths may be a necessary compromise.

For example, a Catholic chaplain with decades of faithful service to Catholic inmates is making an important step by accepting all Christians to his Chapel Talk group.  Thinking  “multi-faith” when planning for Chapel Talks is an important first step.

Referring to the appropriate parts of the American Correctional Chaplains Association (ACCA) Code of Ethics (Figure 4) may be of value in this planning.  While not all chaplains in Pennsylvania prisons are expected to be ACCA members, this association, established in 1885, has long been the voice of professional correctional chaplains.  Its Code of Ethics, while not binding on non-members, has been developed through long years of experience in correctional chaplaincy and deserves our attention.  Training for volunteer chaplains in application of the ACCA (or similar) Code of Ethics would be an appropriate way to deal with the issues raised here.

In conclusion, Chapel Talks can be an effective way to reach out to Christian, non-Christian, and unchurched prison inmates who struggle with life issues – as we all do.

I continue to lead a Chapel Talk group at Dauphin County prison, with many repeat attendees and frequent comments like “today was a good talk, Chaplain.”  Coming from a guy who first attended as a way to “get off the block,” this is satisfying indeed.

Other inmates report that they have “learned things,” and were able to experience “another person’s point of view.”

Learning to “look at things differently” is indeed one goal of group pastoral counseling that benefits both inmates and staff in a correctional facility.

¹ “Small Group Pastoral Counseling at Dauphin County Prison” by Chaplain Larry Coleman, PPCA Newsletter, Spring 1998, vol. 7, no. 4, pp 2-3.

Chaplain Cavenaugh welcomes questions.  Or you can contact him and share how a Chapel Talk program is working in your institution.  He can be reached at nanjim65@verizon.net.

NOTE:

Images in Figure 3 are offered by Chaplain Cavenaugh as examples only.  They are being used in this article in accordance with ’Fair Use.”  This article is copyrighted, 2011, by James Cavenaugh, but he gives you permission to reproduce anything in it except the images in Figure 3 for use in developing a Chapel Talk program in your institution.  You are encouraged to find and utilize your own copyright-free images and not use the ones here (Figure 3) for use in your institution.

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FIGURE 1 – Ground Rules for Chapel TalkWe are a pastoral counseling group where we address life issues from a religious or spiritual point of view.  Our goal is to help each of us [I generally add ‘including me’] develop the spiritual resources to tackle tough questions and make thoughtful decisions.   All faith traditions and beliefs are welcome.

1. Each of us shares responsibility for what happens here, because we are in this together.

2. The way we make it a good experience is by talking respectfully to the whole group, and by listening respectfully to all in the group, so that each of us has a chance to speak and to be heard.

3. Listening respectfully means paying attention and keeping silent until another has finished speaking.  No one is required to speak.

4. When I pay attention and wait for another to finish speaking, I am respecting him as I want to be respected myself.

5. When I have been talking a while, I need to listen to another speak, to hear another point of view.

6. Speaking respectfully means speaking from my own experience about my own feelings.

7. I need to remember that others have different life experiences and may not believe as I do.

8. When I give my point of view and tell how I feel, I am being respectful to myself without being disrespectful to others.

9. I understand that I cannot change someone else, only myself.  So if Chapel Talk is to help someone change, that is up to the individual.

10. What is said here needs to stay here. This is because if we start hearing things from Chapel Talk back on the block, it harms this time together and discourages people from being open and honest.

11. That goes for the Chaplain as well, unless someone speaks of planning to hurt himself or others, or is planning an escape, in which case the Chaplain is required to pass along that information.

FIGURE 2 – Chapel Talk Quotes: Letting the Past be the Past, at Last:

For anyone who lacks these things is short-sighted and blind, and is forgetful of the cleansing of past sins.  (2nd Peter 1:9)

Say to those who disbelieve, if they desist, that which is past shall be forgiven to them; and if they return, then what happened to the ancients has already passed.  (Qur’an 8:38)

People are trapped in history, and history is trapped in them.  (James Baldwin)

The disadvantage of men not knowing the past is that they do not know the present.  History is a hill or high point of vantage, from which alone men see the town in which they live or the age in which they are living.  (G. K. Chesterton)

That men do not learn very much from the lessons of history is the most important of all the lessons that history has to teach.  (Aldous Huxley)

Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it.  (George Santayana)

Each had his past shut in him like the pages of a book known to him by heart; and his friends could only read the title.  (Virginia Woolf)

Even though you’ve given up a past,it hasn’t given you up. It comes uninvited – and sometimes half welcome.  (Susan Glaspell)

A long past vividly remembered is like a heavy garment that clings to your limbs when you want to run.  (Mary Antin)

Figure 3 – Masks We Wear – Who We Really Are:

 

Figured 4: Excerpt from American Correctional Chaplains Association (ACCA) Code of Ethics:

PRINCIPLE VII – COMPETENCY (part)

Members are responsible for effective ministry within the institution they serve, whether responsibility is for the overall program or for one part of it.

Members exercise their ministry without influencing prisoners or staff to change their religious preference or faith. Members conduct their ministry without communicating derogative attitudes toward other faiths.

PRINCIPLE VIII – RESPONSIBILITY (part)

Members are primarily involved in matters directly related to the religious portion of the prisoners’ institutional life and rehabilitation.

Members maintain the highest ethical standard of behavior and avoid any social, personal, financial, or political situation that might discredit their ministry.

Chaplains are responsible for planning, coordinating, and supervising all religious activities and services. They are responsible for ministry to prisoners regardless of religious beliefs or affiliation, using outside sources for assistance when needed.

Before It’s Too Late …

Spring has arrived and God’s beauty is everywhere!

Even in our facilities … many of our institutions have nice trees and beautiful flowers for both staff and inmates to enjoy.

For most of Pennsylvania’s chaplains the mad rush of Lent, Easter, Passover, and Mother’s Day is over.  Soon we will be getting ready for Ramadan around the beginning of August. 

Until then, are the next few months time to relax, touch base with our communities, or get caught up with administrative duties that fell to the side during the busy holy days?

In the mad rush of it all, sometimes the personal pastoral needs of inmates get neglected.  Despite our best intentions, many of us find ourselves not knowing what’s going on with the members of our own faith communities until a crisis occurs.  Often it is too late.

Even though we may have large faith communities, do we miss ”the regulars,” the inmates who consistently participate, when they stop coming to worship services or Chapel activities?  Do we assume they’re taking a break, or maybe that they’ve been released?  Do we make a mental note to check up on them “later?”  Often failing to follow up?

***

I experienced a crisis in my facility this past weekend.  While doing rounds, I came upon a self-harm situation.  To tell you the truth, I don’t think I’ve ever seen so much blood in my entire life.  As I approached the cell, the smell of it assailed my nostrils.  I think the smell registered with me first before the sight did.  I was very shaken.  

After I left the unit, I kept asking myself what drives an inmate to such desperate despair?  Of course, there are a myriad of answers.  But how does it reach that point?  Is there anything the Chaplain can do to help?

The situation brought back memories for me of something that happened in my own faith community.  A young lady, around 20 years old, committed suicide.  She hung up.  The old-fashioned way.  It was awful for both staff and inmates. 

I knew this young lady from the moment she came to my facility.  I did her AOD assessment when I was a counselor in the DCC.  Months later, I was her AOD outpatient counselor.  I got to know her pretty well.  After I retired from full-time work at the DOC, I became a contract Muslim chaplain.  I was thrilled when one day this young lady asked to see me and shared with me that she had an interest in Islaam and in becoming a Muslim.  We talked about it for a long time, and she said the Shahadah (the testimony of faith by which one enters the fold of Islaam) a few weeks later. 

Her attendance at Jumuah and Islaamic activities was consistent.  She seemed changed.  She seemed happy.  Or so I thought …

Then one day my supervisor called me at home.  As chaplains, we are used to delivering death notices to inmates, but I cannot imagine how difficult it must be for a chaplain supervisor (FCPD) to inform a staff chaplain that a member of their faith community has died.  Especially by suicide.  And my supervisor was working the day it happened.  She saw everything.

The young lady waited until all the staff members went home for the week on Friday.  She then wrote goodbye notes to some staff members, knowing that they wouldn’t read them until they came in on Monday when it was all over and it was too late for intervention.  She also sent a poem to one of her friends.  That weekend, when most of the inmates on her block were at yard, she made her move … she hung herself. 

As her chaplain, I was devastated.  But I barely had time to tend to my own spiritual grief.  I had a job to do.  There was a Janazah (Islaamic funeral prayer) to prepare, inmates to provide emotional support to, and even staff members came to my office to talk.

If this young lady knew how many people loved her, I don’t think she would have committed suicide.  Her notes and comments she made to inmates (who put it together after her death) suggested that she thought she was alone and had no where else to turn.  She had no family to speak of except a grandmother.  She felt overwhelmed, and thought no one cared …

Did she think her chaplain didn’t care?

I rationally know that her suicide was not my fault.  But in my heart, I have survivor’s guilt.

I know we’re all very busy, but take some time during this lovely season to check in with as many inmates as you can.  Inmates appreciate the time and interest, even if it’s just a few words.  You never know what makes a difference to inmates.  Let them know you care. 

Before it’s too late …

Peace
Sr. Safiyyah
Muslim Chaplain
SCI Muncy

Models of Lent – In the Desert – In Exile

 

"Dogwood" by S. E. Jihad Levine, Copyright 2011, All Rights Reserved

Models of Lent – In the Desert – In Exile
by Deacon Tom Berna
Chaplain, SCI PIT

Lent, the period of 40 days from Ash Wednesday until the Sunday following the first full moon of spring, is a time when Christians prepare to celebrate the Death and Resurrection of Jesus. Christians are called to renew their commitment as followers of Jesus; they do this primarily through prayer, fasting and almsgiving (works of charity).

The 40 days remind us of the 40 years the Israelites wandered in the desert, a time in which they were keenly aware of Divine presence, guidance and providence. In the desert the people faced many trials and difficulties. God spoke through Moses and the other leaders to encourage (and to admonish) the people. As chaplains we are called to encourage and sometimes to admonish those in our care and to help them to identify the Divine in their midst.

Lent, like the time of incarceration, can remind us of the time the Jewish people spent in Babylon. Babylon was their temporary home; their true home was in Jerusalem. The prophets encouraged people to make the best use of their time in Babylon until they would be able to return to Jerusalem. As chaplains we can do the same. Lent can be a time to focus on that which is of true and lasting value. As people of faith we believe that our true home is a place of ultimate peace and happiness. We encourage and admonish each other to follow the traditions of faith – through the desert – in times of exile – into the Promised Land.